To create a "better" version of any society, one must look at who was historically left out. The evolution of lesbian spaces today is heavily focused on intersectionality. A truly "better" space is one where trans women, non-binary individuals, and queer women of color are not just "allowed," but are foundational to the community’s leadership and culture.
Members feel safer sharing personal struggles.
In the early 20th century, "private societies" were often a necessity for survival—underground networks where queer individuals could exist without fear of persecution. Fast forward to the digital age, and the focus has shifted. It is no longer just about hiding; it is about . The modern push to create something "better" is rooted in the idea that community should be more than just a shared label—it should be a shared value system. 1. Moving Beyond the Bar Scene privatesociety190210creatinganewlesbian better
Linking elder lesbians with younger generations to pass down history and resources.
What does the future of these private societies look like? It looks like . To create a "better" version of any society,
For decades, the "lesbian bar" was the primary—and often only—private society available. While these spaces are historic and vital, the new wave of community building (reflected in the 190210 ethos) seeks to diversify how women connect. Creating something "better" means moving into:
Redefining the Private Society: The Evolution of Lesbian Spaces Members feel safer sharing personal struggles
Using the internet to find "your people" globally, but organizing locally to ensure a physical presence in every city. The Bottom Line